Recently, I had a conversation with my girlfriend about a disappointment that I experienced around sex. In the situation, I believed the thought that I wanted sex. I believed in that moment sex would …
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Is It All About Reactivity?
Since doing Byron Katie’s The Work daily, I am becoming convinced that it’s all about Reactivity. Think about your life and the quality of your relationships. What would it be like to be less reactive …
Projective DreamWork
The late Jeremy Taylor created projective DreamWork. I was part of Jeremy’s training program, but did not complete it before he passed. He was a great teacher and an inspiring man. As a Projective …
Men and the Work
I am inspired by The Work and how I believe it can support men’s work. In the 90s, I was fortunate to be on the ground floor of the local men’s movement in Ventura County. This was the mythopoetic …
Let’s Talk about Trauma and The Work
Byron Katie came up with four simple steps that work for trauma, too. The Work is direct, simple, and grounded in the body. I have used The Work with many clients. It is common that in the first or …
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My Path to The Work
Several years ago, I was going through changes. I had separated from my wife and moved from Oakland to a small community east of Oakland called Pleasant Hill. My father died. I was doing well, and …
More Reasons Why The Work, Works!!
Why does The Work work? … When doing The Work with a facilitator, you work! I could stop right there:) The Work requires a certain type of focus that is like a focused meditation. So, I’ll be …
